If you are a girl (and I’m assuming some of you are), you probably have experienced those glorious moments in your life where you get dressed up, look your best, and actually feel… dare I say it?…. pretty.
I’m not sure if we always realize the significance of those “pretty” moments, until we don’t have any for awhile… especially when it’s been a LONG while!
I (Breanna) recently got to spend time with a group of girls that have quite possibly never, ever had a “pretty moment” before.
These girls are all foster children between the ages of 12-15 and some of them have never even worn a dress before.
I met this bunch at a camp called Teen Reach Adventure Camp or TRAC (sponsored by the amazing group Hope & a Future). Scottie and I were headed up there to take pictures for their special event called The Princess Program.
The goal of the Princess Program is to help these girls feel beautiful both inside and out.
The Princess Program happens on a special night of camp when the girls get all dolled up just like they would for prom (which most of these girls will never get to go to) …
…then they head over to eat a fancy meal prepared just for them…
…followed by a night of carefree dancing and fun (definitely not the norm for any of these girls).
Dolce Salon and Spa collects used prom dresses and bridesmaid dresses at various points throughout the year to save up quite a selection for these girls to choose from when their special night comes.
When the time comes, they put on the dress…
…get their hair and make up done courtesy of Dolce…
(If you happen to be one of the people helping out in some of these photos, you can tag yourself in them on our Facebook page).
…add in some accessories…
…and prepare to be treated like royalty for the rest of night!
When I say royalty, I mean it! I’m talking red carpet, paparazzi, and glittering everything!
Not to mention a group of studs who volunteer to escort the girls down the carpet and spend the rest of the night serving them!
They’re older guys of course, because lets face it, they’re the hottest (ha ha I’m just saying that because I always joke with Scottie about being 6 years older than me)!
In the past, we have promoted the dress drive so that all of our brides know where to send their bridesmaids to donate their dresses once the wedding’s over. However, this year we were asked to volunteer our time to take photos for the actual Princess dinner and we couldn’t have been more honored.
Since it was our first time at this camp, we didn’t quite know what to expect so we were a little nervous. And when we showed up at the camp, we found we weren’t the only ones who were nervous.
The girls there were dressed in old jeans, sweats, and tennis shoes and were struggling to balance both their excitement and their nerves as they anticipated the events that were to come that night!
For a girl who is more used to rejection than loving affection, it can be a very scary thing to have that much positive attention thrust on her all at once!
It was so fun to watch them go through their big transformation. They’d get their hair done and would feign indifference by saying “yeah, it looks OK I guess”, then as they put on their necklaces on they’d try to hide the smiles that were creeping out, and by the time the entire process was done, they were absolutely beaming.
I saw one girl who hadn’t even begun the hair and makeup process, but as soon as she saw herself in the dress she broke down crying.
Of course she had her “cousin” (camp counselors) right there next to her to hold her and encourage the experience she was going through as she finally felt beautiful for the first time ever.
I really loved watching the girls walking down the red carpet arm in arm with their male escorts.
As girls will do, they were all giggly about the guys who were all dressed up and about to… touch their arm (gasp)!! It’s funny how teenage girls never change! ;-) Aside from the shy smiles and darting glances up at the guys’ faces, my favorite part about watching this was how the guys treated them.
I know they had some coaching, but man, the guys took this and ran with it! They only had a runways length to talk to the girl on their arm and in that time they managed to help the girls forget the awkwardness of so many eyes on them and start laughing and… well, feeling beautiful.
You could just see it happening, if there was a confidence meter that you could actually see that day, it would have started at the bottom, climbed slowly up with each “beauty station” the girls passed through, and then shot through the top as they walked down that red carpet with the guys. SO awesome!
After their grand entrances, the girls sat down to a fabulous meal, at an equally stunning table.
I have to say, my jaw completely dropped when I saw the “ballroom”. I mean, they had this place decked out!
I’d be surprised if there was a single piece of hot pink anything left in the state of Arizona that was not in that room once they were done decorating.
No bling, no expense, and definitely no pink was spared as this Princess dinner was created. Just as it should be for a princess.
Props to Margie at Party Presentations for making all the shinyness happen!
The girls proceeded to sit through what was probably the first fancy meal they’ve ever had in their lives, complete with place cards, corsages, crabcakes, and cute waitors who filled up their glasses before they even got half empty.
They were living the high life… and loving every second of it. After dinner came the dancing. The girls learned a few dances and then got to let loose and have a little fun.
I can’t even imagine what a night like this would mean to girls who are so used to being treated the exact opposite of a princess. I know that they will absolutely never forget it.
The best part is that this was just the first night of the TRAC camp! When we left, they still had a couple more days to go where they had people all around them loving on them and trying to reinforce in everyway that they are each just as special as a princess.
P.S. Since one of our goals with our Radiant Love program is to spread the word about different ways to help others in your community, I couldn’t possibly end this without telling you how to get involved (fan us on Facebook to stay updated with our Radiant Love activities along with all our recent photo sessions)! There are so many ways for you to help out with this! You can donate money (and get tax credits!), volunteer time, give your old dresses, etc, etc. And the Princess Program is only one piece of the puzzle. They also have TRAC camps for boys where they have an “All-Star Program“. If you’re looking for a place to invest your time, money, or heart, I highly recommend you check out Hope & a Future because after doing it personally, I’d say it’s a VERY worthwhile investment!